SWAD Resources list for BASHH Public panel on sex education and health matters for parents of young disabled people. Prepared by Lorraine Stanley, SWAD. 1 March 2025. https://www.swaddorset.org/
Topic: How do we educate our children about puberty and sex-related matters? Is it right for parents to remove their child’s body hair? (armpits/pubic)
Sheffield NHS Trust Puberty in girls with learning disabilities. https://library.sheffieldchildrens.nhs.uk/puberty-in-girls-with-learning-disabilities/
Sheffield NHS Trust Puberty in boys with learning disabilities. https://library.sheffieldchildrens.nhs.uk/puberty-in-boys-with-learning-disabilities/
https://devonbreithart.com/shaving-hair-removal-teens-disabilities/
Shaving with a Razor (Text and Voice) - Penquis ADL Tools. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR2iKhDH2OY
Changing Pad (Text and Voice) - Penquis ADL Tools. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhayF6EgRZU
Topic: How do we prepare kids for safer sex?,
Sex education - a guide for parents. https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/family-life-and-relationships/sex-education/parents-and-carers
Topic: How can I help my child understand and cope with puberty; how to best educate my child around sex, safe sex and relationships & how to have those discussions?
Tom Needs to Go: A book about how to use public toilets safely for boys and young men with autism and related conditions. Click here
What's Happening to Tom?: A book about puberty for boys and young men with autism and related conditions. Click here
Masturbation: This page has a link to a webinar by Mel Gadd: https://www.choicesupport.org.uk/about-us/what-we-do/supported-loving/supported-loving-toolkit/masturbation
BILD Exploring sexual and social understanding of sex knowledge and behaviour tool. "Only a court of law can remove the right to a sex life - not parents, not care-givers (but they could raise flags of concern).” You need to be a member to access the resources, but they have a concessionary rate - £12 (this is for people with learning disabilities, autistic people, their families and personal assistants)
NSPCC resources:
Listen to our podcast on supporting d/Deaf children by putting them at the centre of decision making. https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/news/2024/may/podcast-supporting-deaf-children
https://learning.nspcc.org.uk/safeguarding-child-protection/deaf-and-disabled-children
https://pshe-association.org.uk/resource/nspcc-talk-pants
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/globalassets/documents/advice-and-info/underwear-rule-children-guide-english.pdf
Amaze resources: Amaze have a selection of animation videos, definitely worth exploring, including:
Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gn7ZQ2x0cOE
How To Tell If A Friendship Is Toxic (3 MAJOR Signs) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxz_XsycYtY
Puberty in Girls: Boobs and More: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=umpBnIxOqy8&t=7s
Autism & Puberty, Sez Francis on YouTube, 3.26K subscribers. Bio: My name is Sez (It’s my childhood nickname – my real name is Sarah) and I'm an Autistic and Epileptic YouTuber. I upload inclusive, creative and family friendly content; and raising awareness every Wednesday and Friday: https://www.youtube.com/@SezFrancis1
Highly Recommended Books on Puberty:-
Usborne Facts of Life, Growing Up (All about Adolescence, Body Changes and Sex): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Usborne-Facts-Growing-Adolescence-changes/dp/0746031424
The Period Book: A Girl's Guide to Growing Up: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Period-Book-Girls-Guide-Growing/dp/161963662X
Puberty Tips & Resources:-
Sex Education and Puberty (National Autistic Society): http://www.autism.org.uk/sexeducation
How to Talk About Puberty with Your Kids: https://www.wikihow.com/Talk-About-Pu
Twinkl
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How to Use Social Situation Templates to Support Young People
Twinkl - KS2 Lessons and Explainer Videos https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CG37eyKtads&t=140s
What Happens to Boys through Puberty?
Twinkl - KS2 Lessons and Explainer Videos https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axuKPpfe6cg
Chailey Heritage Foundation – complex neurodisabilities.
Chailey Heritage Foundation provides education and care services and is one of the UK’s leading centres for children and young people with complex neurodisabilities. Most of the young people accessing their services have severe cerebral palsy, many have visual impairment and dual sensory impairments. All are wheelchair users and very few have verbal communication. Helen Dunman, who is the PSHE Lead at Chailey Heritage School, is the person I mentioned during our session:
https://www.chf.org.uk/Sex_Factor_brochure_Jan_2025.pdf
People First Dorset & NHS Dorset (Easy Read guide) http://www.apictureofhealth.southwest.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/sexual-health/feelings/Love_Sex_You.pdf
Information on different types of contraception:
https://healthvideos.ourdorset.org.uk/sexual-health
Breast Cancer Screening Film and EasyRead guide for Women with Learning Disabilities: https://www.through-the-maze.org.uk/breast-cancer-screening-film-and-easyread-guide-for-women-with-learning-disabilities/
SWAD Resources list for BASHH Public panel on sex education and health matters for parents of young disabled people. Prepared by Lorraine Stanley, SWAD. 1 March 2025. https://www.swaddorset.org/
Genital Herpes - BASHH Guideline:
https://herpes.org.uk/herpes-patient-information-in-english-and-other-languages/
Please note this is also available in 9 other languages.
Alternatively click here for more genital herpes information.